{"id":39,"date":"2021-08-30T22:21:47","date_gmt":"2021-08-30T22:21:47","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/?p=39"},"modified":"2021-08-30T22:21:53","modified_gmt":"2021-08-30T22:21:53","slug":"talking-to-a-wall","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/?p=39","title":{"rendered":"talking to a wall"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p>I sit on the phone talking with the same person every all day. But lately I&#8217;m not getting anything out of it. I sit and talk and half of the time he does not respond, ill sit there and say &#8220;hello?&#8221; and he always answers &#8220;oh sorry, im texting so and so&#8221; or &#8220;sorry im responding to a tweet&#8221; But when it comes to talking about his day or other people he is all about it. Or when we get off the phone at night and says &#8220;ill text you&#8221; and hours go by without a word. And then when he does finally text me, the responses take forever because &#8220;sorry I was facetiming someone&#8221; Ill send cute texts in the night for him to wake up to and he NEVER responds to them. So I start my mornings with a slap to the face it seems like. <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I used to not over think it , but lately it has really made me feel worthless. Is talking to me really that bad? Am I just being dumb? Why is this bugging me so bad all of a sudden? And how do I make it stop?<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p>I tell myself I need to talk to him to keep me happy, but do I really need to? or is it because its a habit and Im comfortable with it since ive been doing it everyday for over a year? <\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>I sit on the phone talking with the same person every all day. But lately I&#8217;m not getting anything out of it. I sit and talk and half of the time he does not respond, ill sit there and say &#8220;hello?&#8221; and he always answers &#8220;oh sorry, im texting so and so&#8221; or &#8220;sorry im&hellip; <a class=\"more-link\" href=\"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/?p=39\">Continue reading <span class=\"screen-reader-text\">talking to a wall<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","om_disable_all_campaigns":false,"WB4WB4WP_MODE":"","WB4WP_PAGE_SCRIPTS":"","WB4WP_PAGE_STYLES":"","WB4WP_PAGE_FONTS":"","WB4WP_PAGE_HEADER":"","WB4WP_PAGE_FOOTER":"","_monsterinsights_skip_tracking":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_active":false,"_monsterinsights_sitenote_note":"","_monsterinsights_sitenote_category":0,"_jetpack_memberships_contains_paid_content":false,"footnotes":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-39","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized","entry"],"aioseo_notices":[],"jetpack_featured_media_url":"","jetpack_sharing_enabled":true,"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcomments&post=39"}],"version-history":[{"count":1,"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":40,"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=\/wp\/v2\/posts\/39\/revisions\/40"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fmedia&parent=39"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Fcategories&post=39"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/lifetalkswithkay.com\/index.php?rest_route=%2Fwp%2Fv2%2Ftags&post=39"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}