I sit on the phone talking with the same person every all day. But lately I’m not getting anything out of it. I sit and talk and half of the time he does not respond, ill sit there and say “hello?” and he always answers “oh sorry, im texting so and so” or “sorry im responding to a tweet” But when it comes to talking about his day or other people he is all about it. Or when we get off the phone at night and says “ill text you” and hours go by without a word. And then when he does finally text me, the responses take forever because “sorry I was facetiming someone” Ill send cute texts in the night for him to wake up to and he NEVER responds to them. So I start my mornings with a slap to the face it seems like.
I used to not over think it , but lately it has really made me feel worthless. Is talking to me really that bad? Am I just being dumb? Why is this bugging me so bad all of a sudden? And how do I make it stop?
I tell myself I need to talk to him to keep me happy, but do I really need to? or is it because its a habit and Im comfortable with it since ive been doing it everyday for over a year?